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Monday, March 28, 2011

From the diary of a Womanizer.......

Women love him. Men otherwise.

He’s always seen with a lady friend by his side. And for the few occasions where he’s seen with men, he always seems to blend in into his surroundings but yet, he somehow stands out. There’s something about him that makes him the center of attraction even when he’s not.

Maybe it’s his dressing style. He accessorizes his wardrobe with the latest that fashion has to offer – he is in fashion and fashion is in him. He has always strived to be the best dressed man in the room and he invariably is. He’s well read, well opinionated and can strike an engaging conversation with anyone – in his own words, he is a cunning linguist and a master debater, in all glory to the pun.

Of course, he’s in love. But always, in and out of it. The one everlasting love relation he has is with himself and that is his only claim to fidelity. He has loved once, the way you and me love; but he was shattered with the way it went. Today’s his biggest heartbreak is his biggest learning and contrary to others’ perceptions of him, he actually respects women; it’s monogamy that he disrespects.

He has said ‘Hello’ more times than ‘Goodbye’ but unknown to the world around him, with each Goodbye, another part of his heart cracks. But he keeps that only to himself; to the world, he hides his pain, frustration and loneliness behind his charming smile. And to take his mind off it, he tries to makes his life as interesting as possible by being open minded, which in turn attracts more people to his life.

While men have hated and secretly admired his guts, women have called him a friend, a lover, a final fling, a heartbreaker, a bastard (the most common) and many, many more…..

They say that every woman wants to be with a womanizer, hoping that she will be his last.

“Oh, how they fail…… “, he thinks to himself and smiles….

17 comments:

  1. bold statements, Like the revered Lord Byron.

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  3. Ouch!! Direct stab! Womanizers r hard to ignore.. especially coz "BAD is GOOD" for women. Irresistible you may call it.

    nd behind a womanizer thr is always one woman who broke his heart

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  4. Thanks Pramodji...Reverence is only a distant dream fr mortals like me :)

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  5. Interesting post and thought provoking too ;)
    Red is kinda true with his last statement!

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  6. Hey Kranjini, thanks fr goin thru my post :)
    I 2 agree wid u on Red :)

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  7. Throughout the post I was thinking you gonna end saying this is all about you (like your previous one) :)

    //The one everlasting love relation he has is with himself and that is his only claim to fidelity. //

    LOL!!

    Its really joyous to read all that you write.

    Good wishes!

    Nandhini
    pagesfromserendipity.wordpress.com

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  8. P.S Please activate the name/URL format for commenting.

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  9. First I read the post and think this could not be an imaginary character. Unfortunately, I dont know the writer personally so I keep wondering who the womanizer could be.

    Then I read through the comments and observe that Raj responds to all ladies' comments within 24 hours and he also goes on to agree to all their wishes. But I am still wondering who could be the womanizer.. am i missing something? :)

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  10. Thanks Nandini :)

    Hey V Dada, thanx fr ur comments n to compound your confusion, I'll just respond to u with just a :)

    ;)

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  11. A well written piece, whoever it is about!

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  12. well said , at sum point in life d basis of every relationship is tat one affair wid d self. hw can he love another untill he learns to love his self

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  13. Precisely Ameet..its the start of a life long love affair :)..thnx fr goin thru my post AB :)

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  14. "They say that every woman wants to be with a womanizer, hoping that she will be his last.
    “Oh, how they fail…… “, he thinks to himself and smiles…."

    Loved the way you concluded the post...

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  15. Thanks Sapna..glad tht u liked it :)

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